Abi

angieh · 15-03-2009, 04:22 PM

So sorry to hear the sad news. RIP beautiful Abi.

smudgley · 15-03-2009, 04:28 PM

Oh no.

Sorry to hear this sad news.

Elaine · 15-03-2009, 04:31 PM

Thankyou all, I am going to see Emma later and will pass on all your sympathies.
I know she is very upset, confused and beating herself up about it.

dandysmom · 15-03-2009, 04:37 PM

Emma shouldn't blame herself; they are so very good at disguising the symptoms until it's too late. Please give her my condolences.

Elaine · 15-03-2009, 04:45 PM

Thanx Eileen and I know what you mean but I think we all do blame ourselves in these instances, whether there is blame to be had or not.
It's just so sad when they go so young.

PoshPuss · 15-03-2009, 04:49 PM

How sad

So sorry for you all. Be at peace little one.

dandysmom · 15-03-2009, 04:52 PM

Of course we blame ourselves, can't be helped, it's human nature. As I said in the other thread, after reading the symptoms I realized after all these years that's what Su-ling had, and I didn't know about it at the time; it's given me a bit of peace finally knowing....and yes, I feel guilty now, although I shouldn't ..... poor Emma.

Elaine · 15-03-2009, 05:03 PM

Hugs to you Eileen xxx
These things are never easy, young or old but atleast when they are old you can be comforted by the fact that they have had a long, happy, healthy life. Snatched so young just seems so unfair.

yola · 15-03-2009, 07:32 PM

Oh my goodness

How tragic. Emma must be distraught as must her son.

Is this the cat Jac has originally but couldn't keep? If so - has someone told Jac . . .

Elaine · 15-03-2009, 08:05 PM

Just been on the phone to Emma, she is finding it difficult to accept that Abi has gone. On the other hand children being children and living in the moment said to his nan that Abi was now in heaven and we can see her when we look at the stars, his next sentence was, but Peery (thats what he calls me) might bring us another pretty cat if we ask her. Jim, Emma's partner, is also very emotional over the loss of Abi.
Caspurr is fine but is aware that his little friend isnt around for him to chase.
I havent contacted Jac as I dont have her contact number, so if any one else does, could they let her know the sad news.

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