Feeling of being picked on

[Fran]

Jac take care! When I suggested putting Purdie in a box I wasn't really thinking you should carry her round the area Get your hubby or someone else to go with you...
Good luck x

[Snoof]

I'm so sorry I didn't see this before now I hope he comes back, Jac... I know how you feel - Ninja is so skilled at hiding, when his pillow was accidentally thrown away we didn't see him for two whole weeks. But he did come back, and I'm sure C-Fur will, too.

[Mags]

I hope you find him Jac.......

[CJK]

that when i get up tomorrow there is news of his return.
Good luck.

[bobbie3917]

Jac if you have a problem with me then please come right out and say it and the same goes with you CJ i do not think im GOD and i dont push my ideas on any1 i just say my bit and thats it

there are a few that have answerd this thread that are so 2 faced and agree with what i have said but will only say it on msn

if you want to get me kicked off CJ then im sure the best person to ask is Az

i do hope that C-Fur is home by now and if not yet then very soon i do hope that you find and that he is OK

[CJK]

bobbie, I never mentioned your name anywhere. and it wasnt aimed at you at all.

[Sweet]

Jac - sending you big big ((((((hugs)))))) x

[dinahsmum]

The trouble with forums is that the words are there and can be reviewed again and again. Words which would either just have passed, or have been immediately challenged, in vocal communication, stay there on the screen. If people are feeling down to begin with, reading and re-reading certain words can just add to their sad feelings, or feeling of being hard done to.

It would be a shame if we all went round on egg-shells, afraid to voice our opinions, particularly on this site which is extremely welcoming and supportive. I think the huge majority take care not to jump in with both feet and there are a minority of members who are happy to 'let it all hang out'. We know them and come to expect some in their posts; just like there are people we meet in 'real life' who we know will never pull their punches. It's just part of who they are.
Me - I'm one of life's path-smoothers? You know 'the meek will inherit the earth..........as long as the rest of you don't mind!' I hope everyone is feeling less raw this morning.

Jac - I'm so sorry. Hope the little b*gg*r returns, hungry, soon. They do, you know.

[Luke]

Jac..don't feel as if your doing any wrong..my Elsa is an intact female and she goes for a wee wander now and then..she isnt out when she's in call..and she hasnt been caught by the local toms as of yet..and considering she must have had about 3 or 4 calls now i wouldn't say its off chance!
You are a very responsible cat owner and you are allowing your cats a free'er life (of which they will value very highly!), unfortunatley incidents like C-fur dissapearing do occur every now and then..i hope he returns soon!

[Jac]

No C-Fur as yet. The neighbours think I'm nuts. Was spotted out with Purrdie and Blue last night, found out this morning they were thinking I had lost the plot.
Shouting on C-Fur, Purrdie screeming like a banshee and Blue in tow.

I have put a dirty litter tray out. Some Tuna (his favourite) and posters in the local shops. Phoned all the Cat rescues locally and some not so local. All the local kids know he's missing and they will get a reward if they find him for me.
Anything Ive left out?