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28-08-2007, 06:29 PM   #21

Re: Maybe, just maybe


Dig in and keep fighting Donna. He needs to support his children effectively, and that doesn't mean taking them out for treats and buying them luxuries at the expense of basic day to day stuff.

We used to buy OH's daughter really nice clothes (nothing flash, just nice dresses as she was a pretty little blonde thing) etc in addition to the maintenance payments but all these (we have now found out) were slung to the back of the wardrobe and the poor girl was dressed in rubbish from the market JUST to prove a point. It's awful when kids become pawns in the cruel games parents play to score points.

Thankfully they grow up and see the truth for themselves eventually; as yours will too.



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28-08-2007, 08:26 PM   #22

Re: Maybe, just maybe


I am sorry Donna, you and the kids dont deserve all that crap. Its not fair of him to say anything about it to the kids either. He's a selfish git



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28-08-2007, 08:44 PM   #23

Re: Maybe, just maybe


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I am sorry Donna, you and the kids dont deserve all that crap. Its not fair of him to say anything about it to the kids either. He's a selfish git
Thats putting it politely



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28-08-2007, 08:49 PM   #24

Re: Maybe, just maybe


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Thats putting it politely
I would have been deleted if I wrote what i was really thinking
Want me to smash his face in?
You keep your chin up, your worth 100 of him xxx



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28-08-2007, 09:40 PM   #25

Re: Maybe, just maybe


What goes around comes around, hopefully, Donna, he'll get his just dues some day........



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29-08-2007, 08:18 AM   #26

Re: Maybe, just maybe


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What goes around comes around, hopefully, Donna, he'll get his just dues some day........
Yup - he will.
In the meantime don't let that barsteward get you down.



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29-08-2007, 12:57 PM   #27

Re: Maybe, just maybe


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Yup - he will.
In the meantime don't let that barsteward get you down.






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