can anyone help me please....

dandysmom · 10-03-2009, 04:15 PM

Fingers crossed that they'll get the feeding stabilized and that he'll be home with you on the road to recovery; this has been such a dreadful ordeal for you both. I too admire your bravery throughout it. Thinking of you today, (((hugs)))

Natalie · 10-03-2009, 08:31 PM

Sorry that I have only just found this thread. I'm so sad to hear your story and sending you and puss lots of cyber get well vibes.

pookyandjo · 10-03-2009, 11:29 PM

i dont know whaat to write i cant even see the keyboard clearly..the hospital rang... he has taken a turn for the worst... he bit one of the vets... and they have suggested that the time has come... i have to go.. i can bear this im sorry

Mags · 10-03-2009, 11:35 PM

Oh Jo, I'm so, so sorry ........be brave (((hugs)))

If the time has come, remember, you are giving Tinky Winky your greatest gift .....you are releasing him from all his suffering and he will be at peace.

Love to you both.....x

dandysmom · 10-03-2009, 11:39 PM

Oh Jo, so very very sorry......you've done your best, and it seems it's time for him to be out of his pain now; God bless, love and ((((hugs))) .....

Leesy · 11-03-2009, 12:19 AM

Oh Jo I am so so very sorry to hear this news and my heart goes out to you, as painful as it may be you have got to let him go and be at rest free from any pain or suffering. You know that you have done your best by him and shown him lots of love and caring support when he has needed you most that is all you could have done.
Lots of love and big hugs to you both.......Xxx.

pookyandjo · 11-03-2009, 03:56 AM

Hi all, Tinky and I are home from the hospital... i go there went and saw him and then went into a room to speak to the vet... and a few mins later on of the girls came in and said that he had slipped away.....i cant think right at th minute... i can hardly see the keys to type i feel sick and i have an aching i cant describe in words.. at the moment he is wrapped in towel.. in his basket... and is sitting on my bed.. his favorite place to be...i have called a pet undertaker and they will be here around 7 tonight to take him.. my husband has taken back the cage that he was to have used when he came home... it would just upset me to have it here... the same for all the special food that i went and got and pain meds in preparation for his coming home... all so pointless now.. for now my baby is asleep on my bed... my other baby george is laying on the floor even with the point at where the basket is... just looking at me...Tinky was the boss... and there was an unspoken rule that mummy's bed was HIS bed and george wasn't allowed.. there was never a fight about it.... george just never jumped on the bed... ever! and if i tried to put him up there he woulld bolt... as if to say.... ****! i hope Tinky didn't see me on here...i dont know what is going to happen when they come to take him away... i juust dont know..im sorry for rambling... i will try and get some things down on here soon that will show you all what a wonderful quirky, handsome, silly and loving boy he was... i love him so much... and i cant bear what has happend... but at the same time its happened for the best

thank you again

Jo and Tinky Winky

Elaine · 11-03-2009, 08:58 AM

I am so very sorry Jo, big hug to you xxx
R.I.P. Dear Sweet Tinky Winky xxx

Leesy · 11-03-2009, 09:22 AM

Jo I am so sorry to hear that Tinky slipped away last night, the love that you had for him shone through with every post that you sent us, and Tinky knew that you loved him as well with all your heart which is the main thing, at least he is at peace now as hard as it is for us to bear, my thoughts are with you, take care, sending you lots of ((((HUGS)))) Pauline Xxx.

dinahsmum · 11-03-2009, 09:44 AM

Big hugs
You did all you could; gave him every chance and though he tried he couldn't make it.
Don't beat yourself up over anything you did or didn't do. Work through the pain and, in time, start to have happy memories of a healthy cat who you loved and who loved life. Remember the good times and minimise the bad - they were only a tiny part.

If you want, when you're ready, you can post an obituary in the Gone But Not Forgotten section - put in some nice pics, talk about his kitten pranks etc.

We're all with ya kidda - take care and don't think too much. x

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