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Oh no, i hope your car can be fixed easily and cheaply Tink. |
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What's the word on the car, Tink? |
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My friend fixed a few things he thought might be causing the issue. He also found something that needed to be addressed so I need to order a part and he'll come back and install it for me. If original problem isn't fixed after I test drive it for awhile he's got one more idea to try before I break down and bring it in. I tried to at least take him to lunch for all his trouble but he brought me instead. Really good guy. I had a peaceful day yesterday but nights always get me.. I started watching videos I took to hear Kevin's voice and see him alive again. I wrote a note to Kevin about all the things I'll miss. That helped. His Mum will be back in town today after spending a healing weekend with his sister. His stepdad's had time to recharge while he had the house to himself. I'm the only that has not had a break. But I did feel some peace yesterday. Maybe there is more of that to come. |
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So glad for you that folks are rallying around to help you out Tink. It's lovely that you have K's voice and the videos and that they bring you peace & comfort. You have memories that time can't erase and will draw strength from those. I hope you do manage to get a break- in your own time when you feel able to. Much love to you, you're still in my thoughts. Hugs xxx |
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I'm so happy to hear about the car, and you're feeling a little more comforted; lots of virtual (((hugs))) from me and a head-butt from Leia. |
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Hope the car is ok. Glad that you are able to do things to get some comfort and peace. What a good idea to write notes to Kevin. |
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How are you today? .............. |
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My thought are still with you Tink .......... ((((HUGS)))) |
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Hi guys, I'm okay I guess. Some depression of course. I have two really funny friends that have been helping me. Dark sense of humor is my only respite from the grief and that's why we hit it off to begin with--this couple used to double date with me and K. Anyway, I tend to get in a dark place and they try to bring me out with something silly and it does work for a temporary fix of relief. But obviously they can't do that all night and that's when it hits me the hardest. Had a phone consult with psych today that told me all my feelings are normal and will call me to check in on Tuesday again. I feel like I'm so exhausted but I can't sleep. Frustrating. Brief glimpses of light at the end of the tunnel. The rest of time I am just existing. |
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I think that's all normal too Tink - just hang on in there hun, the darkest days will lighten xxx Very glad you have a couple of friends to help you through. |
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