Beauty's not very well

Natalie · 27-10-2008, 08:47 PM

I know only too well the pain and torment you are going through. Someone on here told me that the decision to PTS was harder than the act and they were so right.

I'm so sorry Beauty's health hasnt improved.

My thoughts and prayers and with you.

yola · 27-10-2008, 09:32 PM

Oh dear. I am so very sorry. It's a horrid decision to have to make but certianly one those of us who have taken on sickly cats have had to face - and realistically too.

I think you need to think long and hard about making the right decision for Beauty - not just for yourselves. Be led by your vet - hopefully you can trust them enough for this. Might it not be a good idea to visit them for a 10 minute chat? Again, with your friend maybe but without Beauty so you can really logically talk through what will be best for her; and if the worst comes to the worst . . .when to do it.

We have been frustrated here by your seeming lack of focus on finding a solution to Beauty's health problems (there has been much, much going around the houses), but essentially everyone is supportive of trying to help you make the right decision - we all want to see the right outcome for your cat - one that will either help her and relieve her pain, or finally release her from it.

When the time comes to make that choice we will do our best to help and comfort you through what might well be a tricky time.

Phoenix · 27-10-2008, 09:34 PM

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Originally Posted by yola

Oh dear. I am so very sorry. It's a horrid decision to have to make but certianly one those of us who have taken on sickly cats have had to face - and realistically too.

I think you need to think long and hard about making the right decision for Beauty - not just for yourselves. Be led by your vet - hopefully you can trust them enough for this. Might it not be a good idea to visit them for a 10 minute chat? Again, with your friend maybe but without Beauty so you can really logically talk through what will be best for her; and if the worst comes to the worst . . .when to do it.

We have been frustrated here by your seeming lack of focus on finding a solution to Beauty's health problems (there has been much, much going around the houses), but essentially everyone is supportive of trying to help you make the right decision - we all want to see the right outcome for your cat - one that will either help her and relieve her pain, or finally release her from it.

When the time comes to make that choice we will do our best to help and comfort you through what might well be a tricky time.

We have had a chat with the vet over the phone as well as taking Beauty in, and the vet thinks that PTS is probably the best thing to do, but he said it's our choice, not his.

angieh · 27-10-2008, 09:49 PM

I am so very sorry RCR. A horrible decision to make, but I know that you will not allow Beauty to suffer.

So glad that you had your friend there with you and I hope that you will not take Beauty to the vet again on your own.

Try and be strong for her - it's very hard I do understand. My thoughts are with you both.

Tink · 28-10-2008, 12:08 AM

i am so sorry RCR.

sammy · 28-10-2008, 01:08 AM

I'm so sorry to hear about Beauty......I too know how hard it is to make that decision.....unfortunately sometimes it is the best decision for a much loved cat.......

meep · 28-10-2008, 10:40 AM

I'm sorry to hear this RCR, my prayers are with Beauty x x

PoshPuss · 28-10-2008, 12:18 PM

Oh I am so sorry that it has come to this point but, do you know, I think it is a wonderful act of kindness that we can give to our beloved animal friends. You have been priviledged to give and receive love from Beauty. Love never dies. Use all your strength to be brave one last time and let her pass over to the bridge.

Take care. x

truthisouthere · 04-11-2008, 04:08 PM

My thoughts are with you and your precious angel at this sad time..I know it doesn't feel in your heart like you are doing the right thing but remember, Beauty needs peace..and a brave mum to help her do what's right for HER. X

Jasmine · 04-11-2008, 09:08 PM

I had to have my gorgeous chocolate Burmese, Leo, put to sleep in June - sometimes you have no choice in the matter.

I shall never forget him and still have tears in my eyes thinking of him.

However I now have a 12 year old cat from the Cats Protection, who is half Burmese - he has settled down really well. His previous owners no longer wanted him (I cannot imagine having a cat for 12 years and then suddenly not wanting him). I did not feel I should have a kitten as I am 69 and the kitten would probably outlive me and then have to find a new home.

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