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15-08-2009, 05:01 PM   #1

Help before I explode


How to deal with bad neighbours???? You know me guys, I have just about had it and want to go down stairs a kick ass!!!!
We have a young asian couple who moved in down stairs a few months back, for the last month of so they have been fighting and screaming every day!!! I am no exagerating, Erin has heard them too.
It just grates on me every time. I have asked them to keep the noise down before but obviously to no avail.
Now I want to go down and bloody well have it out with them but G said no



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15-08-2009, 05:06 PM   #2

Re: Help before I explode


I dont know what else to suggest if you have tried talking to them.. maybe a note through the door?

I have pikey neighbours who scream and shout their way through the day.. and then the four kids cry and fight their way through their day... just about drives me out of the house....

I feel as if I live with them cos I hear all their arguments, hear the fighting and screaming, hear the kids being shouted at. etc etc...

I feel for you.



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15-08-2009, 05:33 PM   #3

Re: Help before I explode


If you've already had a word with them and they are blatantly ignoring you I would involve the landlord (or the council).

If it's at night phone the police!



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15-08-2009, 05:35 PM   #4

Re: Help before I explode


Oh Donna that sounds awful. I just wish these people would realise what kind of impact thier behaviour has on others.
G and I can fall out on occasion, actually all the time but voices are raised seldom. Sometimes fall out can happen but when it's on a daily basis....
I only came back from a house sit today and it's got to me already.
The girl does have one of those unfortunate voices that grates on me even when she isnt shouting and screaming.
Every time I hear them, I just want to run down stairs and punch them both.



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15-08-2009, 05:35 PM   #5

Re: Help before I explode


I know just how you feel Elaine we have neighbours on both sides that are always shouting and being loud or the kids are shouting and being loud, it is sooooo frustrating when you just want a bit of piece and quite.



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15-08-2009, 05:40 PM   #6

Re: Help before I explode


I do sympathise Elaine, but can offer no helpful advise.



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15-08-2009, 05:58 PM   #7

Re: Help before I explode


Awwwww mate, not nice to go back to that I would ring environmental health see if they can do or reccomend anything



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15-08-2009, 06:08 PM   #8

Re: Help before I explode


Think I will tell them that if they dont sort themselves out and I have to listen to that crap every day, I'll be calling the police and the environmental health.
The thing is these are all bought flats, so no landlords etc to complain to.



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15-08-2009, 07:53 PM   #9

Re: Help before I explode


It can't just be you who is annoyed/irritated bothered...so ask the neighbours...if they have a problem. Does your flat have a "board/grop who run it? if so talk to them. Very very irritating. I imagine though if her voice grates on you then you are going from laid back to red straight off with nothing in between.The council still should be able to help...neighbour noise is a problem of the modern world.



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15-08-2009, 08:17 PM   #10

Re: Help before I explode


Thanx for that Kazz, it's all quiet on the eastern front at the moment. I hope it remains like that for a while coz I'm knackered.



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