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Isn't the mind weirdI have had a strange kind of day today. After I dropped off Ceilidh at school. I went for a shower and locked the front door before I went in. Iv'e never done that before. Being in the house alone has never bothered me in the slightest. Then before I went back out I shut and locked all the windows. Again it's something Ive never bothered about. Do you think it's because I know in the back of my mind Blue isn't here? It's a strange feeling I have today. Coupled up with the fact Sean isn't talking to me. Darryle said that acording to Sean I should have Txt him while he was in Beleise to tell him about Blue. The way I looked at it was he couldn't do or change anything so what was the point of up setting him while he was so far away from home. Seem's I'm wrong. I also got a card from the Vet and receptionist today.
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Yes the mind does strange things. Sean will come to understand he I think would feel that upset that he couldn't help/be there for you. He will come round when he calms down enough to realise you had to do the best for Blue not for yourself or him or anyone else other than Blue. But isn't this a nice thing vets have started to do recently sending a card. |
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aww Jac, I'm sure Sean will come round soon. It's just been a shock for him. You'll get used to things in time ((hugs)) |
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((((hugs)))) jac,im sure Sean will come round soon.And yes the mind does some strange things |
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Jac, I feel sure it's because you subconsciously feel insecure without Blue  I for one feel loads safer in general having dogs in the house with me. Don't worry about Sean, it's just the shock of Blue not being here anymore, he'll come around  {{{Hugs}}} |
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The others above have said it all Jac ........ Sean will soon realise that you were saving him the heartbreak being so far from home.... ((((hugs)))) |
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Your probably all right. I just feel really teary just now. Just show's how much I depended on Bluzey for company ect. It is nice that the Vet sent a card. It was what she wrote that got to me again. |
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awww jac great BIG ((((((hugs)))))) |
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Aww Jac, big hugs to you hun xxx Its a very difficult time so dont go beating yourself up xxx You did what you thought best at the time. Allow yoursef time to greive for Blue, he was a very dear friend to you and you to him xxx |
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Its all part of the grieving process Jac's, you will be up and down for a while to come, and I really think you never get over losing a much loved pet, just learn how to deal with it.... Give yourself time, and you know where I am if you want to talk....xx |
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