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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm............maybe not sure. I miss my two not anyone elses cat thats the thing......but I know to get that again I would need to start from scratch however I think the thing holding me back is will my next cat and I get along as well as we all did. Thats what I do not know and I think the more I think about it and disect it the worse it becomes.....as you play out "senario's" almost in your head. not quite but almost.....what if we do not get on, or more what if we do not have the same "bond" as I did with Oz and Cleat that would be terrible and maybe worse what if we have a better "bond/friendship" built on what I earnt from those two which I think it would be more than possible. Would that be disloyal or am I thinking about it to much.................what I need is for a cat/kitten to drop in and stay taking the planning out of my head. And dont say go see a litter or kittens because I can be hard hearted moreso than the majority realise. and I will/would Ohh and Ahhh but still walk away. Oh I don't know, maybe not enough time has passed or maybe too much.....Anyhow off out shortly see you all later. |
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When I lost Sam I was adamant that I didn't want another cat but my hubby and children said I should have one so I eventually gave in. Cassie was totally different to Sam and I wondered if I would ever feel the same about her as I did him. She eventually got into my heart and now I love her as much as I did Sam but in a different way, if you know what I mean. All cats are different and gaining their trust and affection has to be worked at ....... but in the end you have a friend for life |
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You never feel the same as the previous ones, My Sam was a very special boy, my boys now are all special in different ways..... Pity you were not nearer to me Kazz, I know of a little boy who would love you and Sal... |
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I think you are thinking too much, Kazz! All cats are different, but they all bond in their own way and you love the new one because of who he/she is and getting to know his/her personality and little quirks. The relationship is never the same as before, neither better nor worse, just different! IMO, anyway. Su-ling and Sultan were as different as chalk and cheese, but I loved them both for who they were ..... |
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