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19-12-2011, 11:05 PM   #1

Running out of ideas


Sorry for the long absence.. a lot has been going on .. which I will update you all on soon...

I am struggling with Chloe and Misty. They still hate each other. I have tried Feliway. Tried all sorts. They fight. Chloe wees everywhere.

Not sure what else I can do with them.



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19-12-2011, 11:22 PM   #2

Re: Running out of ideas


Donna, I have wondered how you were doing; what a shame about your two. After all this time and they're still not getting along ......



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20-12-2011, 12:09 AM   #3

Re: Running out of ideas


Hi Donna, good to see you....Sounds like your 2 will never like each other....



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20-12-2011, 12:15 AM   #4

Re: Running out of ideas


Good to see you Donna

Sorry to hear you're still having problems with Chloe and Misty Have you had Chloe checked over by the vet in case there is any urinary problem?



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20-12-2011, 08:57 AM   #5

Re: Running out of ideas


Sorry to hear it is not going well Donna. Do you think it is a habit they have gotten into, now rather than a dislike of each other or do you think they will never settle maybe it is time to look for another home for one of them befroe everyone remains as stressed cats and humans.



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20-12-2011, 04:49 PM   #6

Re: Running out of ideas


This may sound a bit odd, bit it worked for me... get a kitten! Misty took an instant dislike to Patches when I rehomed her, and it was hiss/spit/rower. When I got Dandy that defused the situation: Misty adopted the kitten and fussed over him; that left Patches alone in peace, which suited her just fine. And of course Dandy loved both. Adding a third to the duo seemed to alter the tension amazingly.



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20-12-2011, 07:17 PM   #7

Re: Running out of ideas


I have often wondered if a third cat would difuse the situation..

Other things to worry about now though, as mum rushed into hospital with suspected cancer.. will update when I can x



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20-12-2011, 08:02 PM   #8

Re: Running out of ideas


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Originally Posted by Donna
I have often wondered if a third cat would difuse the situation..

Other things to worry about now though, as mum rushed into hospital with suspected cancer.. will update when I can x
Sorry to hear about your Mum, Donna, I hope and pray she will be alright. Thinking of you (((hugs)))



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20-12-2011, 08:21 PM   #9

Re: Running out of ideas


Sorry about the news, Donna, hoping for good news.



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20-12-2011, 09:54 PM   #10

Re: Running out of ideas


Oh dear Donna, I sincerely hope your mum is going to be ok xxx

I am also sorry that Chloe and Misty are still at it, it's certainly not been for the want of trying on your part, sometimes cats just dont get on.
It's hard to say whether a third cat would help diffuse or just aggrivate the situation.



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