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That's beautiful. Thanks for posting that, I may lift that for publication in my local CP newsletter with your permission . . . |
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That made me cry...so beautiful; thank you for sharing it. I have always gotten another cat after I lost one; no disrespect to the one who was gone; I just had enough love to share with someone else...the new cat isn't or never can be, a replacement, it's a new friend to love, and to love me...and I cannot imagine coming home to an empty house without a cat... |
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Yola - feel free, it was lifted off my local CP newsletter. DM - I am the same, my friend tried to tell me I couldn't have loved my first cat if I could get another the day after, but I live on my own, and I hated coming home to an empty house - agreeing to see a cat a couple of hours after coming back from having one pts was hard though, but I was told that Snowy wouldn't have minded. I find it helps with grieving if I have a new cat to focus on, they are never replacements, but if I have the love to give, then it is better used on a cat that truly needs it, and I don't think any of mine would mind. |
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Exactly the way I feel, Booktigger!. I had the same sort of friend (?) who said that to me after my Aby, Sultan, had to be PTS, and the next day I got my Patches, the tortie...she needed a home...I needed someone to help take the edges off my sorrow...she's been with me for years, she's 20 now & aging terribly...but when she does go, there will be another one out there who needs a loving home...another friend, whose Persian died of cancer said he'd never put himself through that pain again...I find thast hard tp understand...well, toeach his own... |
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