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Mistleto's-mum's Avatar
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16-02-2010, 11:37 PM   #1

Any one else had this?


If this is in the wrong place then feel free to move it.

As some of you know we lost our chesty in January but i feel like i'm going mad, i keep seeing him at the bottom of the stairs, in the down stairs hallway, on the cat bed in the upstairs hallway.
Has anyone else had this, i'm not scared but i feel like i'm going mad



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16-02-2010, 11:39 PM   #2

Re: Any one else had this?


I have to say that in my experience it's quite normal. I used to see Merlin just where I'd expect him to be. I think it's a part of the grieving process MM. I'm glad you're not scared, after all, he was your friend - and you're not going mad.



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16-02-2010, 11:56 PM   #3

Re: Any one else had this?


I agree, part of the healing process. I swore I saw my Siamese one time after he had died ....... don't worry, please, you're OK!



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17-02-2010, 12:00 AM   #4

Re: Any one else had this?


I used to see Beauty a lot after she was PTS, so please don't worry.



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17-02-2010, 12:02 AM   #5

Re: Any one else had this?


I am the same with Simon i can sometimes see him running up the path.



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17-02-2010, 12:07 AM   #6

Re: Any one else had this?


I am the same, think I keep seeing and hearing Chancer....



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17-02-2010, 12:14 AM   #7

Re: Any one else had this?


I think you're lucky if you see Chesty. I would love to see the pets we have lost again.
My Dad says he has seen one of their cats twice now.



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17-02-2010, 12:27 AM   #8

Re: Any one else had this?


Its nice to know i'm not the only one.
I like the fact i see him but it hurts to if you understand what i mean.

xxxx



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17-02-2010, 12:35 AM   #9

Re: Any one else had this?


Quote:
Originally Posted by Mistleto's-mum
Its nice to know i'm not the only one.
I like the fact i see him but it hurts to if you understand what i mean.

xxxx
Oh I do know what you mean, you want it to be back the way is was, and it will never be ...



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17-02-2010, 12:39 AM   #10

Re: Any one else had this?


Oh yes, for my mum's sake more than mine as he was her little boy and went every where with her and she really is suffering xx



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