well, after a standoff with the alpha dog hestia had a setback for two days..then decided "forget this, i'm not hiding behind a fish tank forever". migrated to the bedroom, started sleeping there during the days. kuan yin who was never interested in lying next to me is suddenly battling with her over who gets to lay by mommy's shoulder...usually hestia wins. was worried because she is declawed and of course kuan yin is not but that girl sure can make herself look intimidating.
last night hestia decided when the dogs ran in to sleep with daddy on the bed as is customary that she was NOT moving off for some "stinking dogs". laid on my legs all night and stared em down. that's good because the dogs don't fuss if something doesn't run away from them in fear. if a newcomer is confident then they just ignore them.
i think by next week she'll be queen of the household
kuan yin and her had a "groom off" this morning..quite interesting to watch. they were both on the bed with me and almost seemed to be competing who groomed themselves better, i.e. lick, lick, stare...lick, lick, move closer to mom, stare...lick, lick, hiss, stare...not sure what the communication was there but it was amusing.
very happy that this looks like it's working out, i have a multispecies house and one never knows if i'll be helping or hurting by adopting, i always fear that.
oh, and she is totally indifferent to the ferrets now..it's amazing how they can adjust, isn't it?