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11-02-2006, 04:19 PM   #1

Advice please


Right.
This boy is available near me - 'due to child's illness'.



He's 6 months old, used to cats and dogs.

My OH has fallen for his picture (he's wanted a longhair or semi longhair for ages - Maine Coon etc).

Is 6 months young enough to integrate easily? (remember 2 old girl cats - 16 + 18 and teenage cat-friendly staffie). I'd hate to offer him a home and find he was just a wreck who hid upstairs away from everyone.
I presume that when I get ginger (hopefully very shortly)(as a little kitten) they will bond, as the 'young boys'?

Any advice, particularly from anyone with similar experience, gratefully received.



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11-02-2006, 04:24 PM   #2

Re: Advice please


They are still quite young and 'kitteny' at 6 months old, however personally, I think it easier to integrate a much younger kitten. He is a lovely looking boy. He seems very big and mature looking for 6 months old Good luck if you decide to go for him DM!!



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11-02-2006, 04:27 PM   #3

Re: Advice please


I thought he looked more than 6 months too, even allowing for his fluff! (Maybe that is a child-sized chair he's sitting in, which is distorting our ideas?)

I think my original - and long thought-over - decision, to get the two kittens to form the younger contingent of the family, is the best way forward.

Kit is very gorgeous though, and I'm not much of a fluff-lover!



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11-02-2006, 04:28 PM   #4

Re: Advice please


Sorry not to good with adice but I would say follow your gut instinct.



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11-02-2006, 04:33 PM   #5

Re: Advice please


He is lovely DM but as Jac says go with your gut instinct



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11-02-2006, 04:35 PM   #6

Re: Advice please


sorry cant really offer any advise except we have taken on cats/dogs at varies ages and they always seem to bond hope this helps



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11-02-2006, 05:09 PM   #7

Re: Advice please


Sorry, unable to advise you on this one DM, just wanted to say he was a beautiful kit (and it looks like a childs chair to me ).



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11-02-2006, 07:18 PM   #8

Re: Advice please


He is a beauty...can see why your OH is drawn to him. Six months is still very young but it would depend when you got your ginger baby. I would say that there is every chance that the two younguns would bond...but it may well be easier bringing two small kittens in together. It is a tricky decision and going with him may be harder work.....but might be worth it in the long run



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11-02-2006, 07:38 PM   #9

Re: Advice please


Go with your Gut instinct.



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11-02-2006, 07:38 PM   #10

Re: Advice please


Hes gorgeous DM i would snap him up!



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