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28-03-2006, 10:29 PM   #1

Reassurance Needed


Violet asked to go out half hour ago, its dark and she has never been out in the dark before - I am worried she will not come back, I have tried calling her, seen her, but she will not come in.

She has not used her litter tray for poopsies since Saturday, and I think thats why she asked to go out. She is still using it for Wee's!

A very nervous and worried Mum to Violet x



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28-03-2006, 10:33 PM   #2

Re: Reassurance Needed


Can you leave your door open a bit?? as she has been out before, I think she will be okay, she will come back when she wants to....



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28-03-2006, 10:35 PM   #3

Re: Reassurance Needed


I have left the back door open Moli - she goes out during the day when I am at home from work but never when its late and dark x



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28-03-2006, 10:40 PM   #4

Re: Reassurance Needed


She can see in the dark, Sweet - don't worry. She'll be back when she's good and ready, I'm sure. Hugs!



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28-03-2006, 10:40 PM   #5

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Sure she will be okay.....Its not easy not to worry though...



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28-03-2006, 10:42 PM   #6

Re: Reassurance Needed


Thank you both xxxxxxx I am sat here worried sick.



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28-03-2006, 10:43 PM   #7

Re: Reassurance Needed


When the nights got milder, Cassie always used to stay out ages and was a pain to get in at night. I've noticed she has started it already, there are more little creatures beginning to move around in the evening now, which fascinates them.

Don't worry too much, I'm sure she is enjoying herself and will be back soon....



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28-03-2006, 10:45 PM   #8

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Hope she comes home soon Sweet x



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28-03-2006, 10:48 PM   #9

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Thank you both xx She was chasing insects earlier today Mags, I am hoping she is doing that now and will come back sooner rather than later - God knows what I will be like when the Children are alot older and wanting to go out late at night x



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28-03-2006, 10:52 PM   #10

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I have had the same worry myself tonight Sweet. One of mine would not come in, he was charging round the garden and ignored my calls All my cat's come to call so I knew he was just being defiant. He has just come in now Sure Violet will come home soon. Keep calling her. This warmer weather encourages them to want to be out later me thinks!



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