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Not having a good day today, the events of Friday night have just continued to annoy me today, thought I was ok at the weekend but I think I was just trying to gloss over it haven't been very busy at work which hasn't helped much. Decided it was time I was selfish for a bit, OH sent me a text at lunchtime yabbering on about his work, I just looked at it in despair and realised that he hasn't got a clue. Then he sent me a text just a minute ago to let me know he was still at work (he is suppose to leave off at 5pm) and will let me know when he is on the train. Just text him back and told him not to bother. I have decided from now on he can get on with his life with minimal support from me, I am not cooking for him, not taking him to the station/airport, not lending him money, his family functions he can go to by himself, he can sort out easter eggs for his niece and nephew. I hope in a weeks time perhaps I will feel different but I am still stunned by his lack of thought for me and I feel very numb inside. I have also been thinking about Elaine and DD and what they must be going through his afternoon that has made me even more depressed. |
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Its not a good day all round is it. Been thinking of Winston and Max this afternoon. Hope Elaine and DD are strong and cope as best they can with this hard decision. To Winston and Max x |
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Got an unexpected present from two friends in America today. Been distracted all day, not sure why. Here's to Max and Winston, may they run free. |
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Oh emma, i hope you soon feel better about things. It isn't easy when you feel under appreciated and feel that your OH doesnt consider your fellings enough, I know how that feels, had years of it from Hubby. Sorry to hear things arent so well, I personally don't blame you for not doing somuch for him, it'll teach him to appreciate you more. |
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Had a busy day today with one thing and another. Thinking of both Elaine and DD today. Goodbye Winston and Max...Run free together at the bridge you cheeky boys x Sorry things have not worked how you would have liked Emma. Try not to do anything in haste and have a good think about things {{Hugs}} A somber evening on CP...Goodbye Winston and Max x |
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Has been a rahter sombre day today. I am sorry if i seemed insensitive, having had a lot of probs myself at home I missed the news of MAx. Winston and Max, run free little ones. |
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What a sad day today is. Dawn and Elaine are both in my thoughts - I hope the pain of their loss lessens with time. Emma - I SO know what you mean. It's difficult when you feel someone hs slighted or insulted you to be able to forgive - especially after giving so much! Don't rush into any decisions, but also don't let hatred stew, it can be damaging and can obscure real thoughts and feelings. Things continue much the same here. Work, home, dinner, bed. Dominik offers fun and light relief which is a godsend. I'm too feeling deflated and saddened by today's dearly departed cats so will head off to bed shortly as there really is not much else to do. Lets hope tomorrow is brighter for all!! |
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