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Could you share your husband?I can't believe how many ads I have come across lately  It seems that swinging etc is quite popular Not my cup of tea. What does everyone else think?
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I'm not married but if my bf was cheating on me I'd be furious and I certainly wouldn't encorage him. And I just couldn't do that wife swapping thing its gross. I guess some people maybe have dull sex lives and need to spice things up? Not for me at all, ta! |
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I am surprised that while surfing through Freeads...as you do.....there were people offering their "other halves" out. How bizarre. I could never share my hubby. |
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It's suprising what people get up to. Someone I thought I knew quite well said that she and her husband do this You may know someone who does this and don't even realise |
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dont knock something till you have tried it  i dont know i guess if you are both getting something out of it then maybe i would try it out (not that i have a OH) i dont think i could watch mind lol but as long as you know that you can still go on and not rud it in each others faces like he was better then you and all that |
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Wouldn't want to try it to be honest. That's why I got married. To be with that one person for the rest of our lives  (maybe I'm old fashioned) |
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We have an open relationship, but it's just something we both prefer. We're very committed to each other and we have a wonderful sex life, but sometimes we have sex (with extensive safety precautions) with other people, generally friends we know pretty well (and I will generally make sure their headspace is up to it to make sure there won't be any drama). It doesn't happen very often, mostly because he's busy and I'm ill  But neither of us minds.And it's only cheating if someone's being lied to. Neither Matt nor I feel cheated on, we don't lie to each other and we don't lie to the people involved. Anyone involved knows we intend to spend the rest of our lives together and that they will not be replacing anyone. Some of them are in relationships of their own (and in that case, yes, their partners are aware). We're just not very jealous people - particularly not of physical affection. |
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Wow Snoof - I'm full of admiration, I really am. I don't think I could share my husband; I know we don't always see eye to eye, but essentially the love is strong (hopefully on both sides)! I haven't really thought about in in a great amount of detail (swinging), but 1st reaction is . . . naah. Not for me! |
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Well, it's much like jetskiing or gardening or watching football on the telly, yola... Some people like it, other people don't, and as long as nobody's getting hurt by it I don't see why people should feel forced to do or not do it  |
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see i was trying to say what Snoof did as long as your not the jealous type and you both 100% agree it should be fine and work well. i was shocked when i bumped in to a friend on a site i thought no friends would be on and the best thing was as soon as they noticed me they jump right out and said HI |
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