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Janey, I'm so sorry.... and with no family there to comfort you..I know it's easy to say, but do try to concentrate on remembering the happy times, and know that Tigger isn't in any pain or suffering now. (((hugs))) |
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But you're not really away from him he'll never really leave you. You have him safe in yourheart and meet him in your dreams. You made the best and only descision. The right one, the one he always knew you would make when you needed to because you love him, and because you love him you let him go on ahead. Karen |
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I know it was the right thing to do, its just really hard coz i ve had him since i was 6. Im coping alot better than i thought i would though. Its just lonely at ngiht coz he use to share my bed with me. |
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Janey, have you thought about getting another cat? There'll never be another Tigger, bt you have a lot of love to give, and somewhere out there is a cat that needs a loving home ........???? |
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I agree with DM janey why not go and have a look at some available cats or kittens and see how you feel when you see them. It may be that you're not ready right now to share your life with another feline friend but on the other hand it could be just what you need to occupy your time. Your memories of Tigger will never go and you will never forget him but the pain and the heartache will go one day and you will find yourself thinking about him and smiling, talking about him and laughing and remembering him and feeling happy not sad. It just takes time for these things to come and the sadness to subside but it does i promise. Stay strong and give the new cat some thought besides Tigger wouldnt want you to be so unhappy i shouldnt imagine Sarah x |
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Oh Jane {{{Hugs}}} I do know exactly how you are feeling right now, little comfort I know but Tigger is still with you, he really is x |
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Jane - that's so sad - you must be really missing that lovely boy so much. But the others are right - maybe you need to fill that hole in your heart with another furry friend? It won't be a betrayal of Tigger he will be the cat you always will have that special relationship with, but maybe he'd want you to channel the sadness into love for a new companion? Don't worry about going on and on and on about Tigger. We are all here to help you through this so get it all out of your heart and down on 'paper' and hopefully it'll help you feel much better. Hugs. |
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