I've taken the decision to get a cat shrink
to come and see Bernard, as he's not getting any better. In fact he might even be getting worse. The inappropriate toileting has stopped, but the crying and demanding attention has increased. He woke me up 3 separate times last night; he was just sat at the side of the bed looking up at me and crying.
I'm at my wits end, as I don't know how to help him and cannot carry on like this.
My vets put me in touch with this behaviourist who lives quite locally. I called her this morning and she's coming over on Thursday to meet Bernard and give her diagnosis.
Fingers crossed that she brings her magic wand!!!
Also, I'm collecting Red this weekend and really need to get Bernard sorted. I have thought about delaying getting Red, but have decided to go ahead with getting him. I might as well do it all in one go and hope that Bernard will recover from it all, rather than get him better now and then bring in Red and set him back again.
Thank goodness for insurance that covers referrals to behaviourists.............Bernard's does!!! Phew
It's costing £215 for her consultation
I hope I'll be able to report that it was worth every penny!!