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What goes around comes aroundWell well well totaly gob smacked here the saying goes around comes around came back to bite someone on the bum today.  Maybe I should not laugh/smile but I will.A good friend of mine "A" I will call her has two children my (Godson) "D" 19 now, and a daughter "J" 15. Now her Ex husband "S" when she first met him I thought he was odd but could not put my finger on it her Mom and Dad thought the same thing but there was nothing they could put their fingers on. Anyhow happiness they married 21 years ago and all was fine...my friend "A" had been told at 15 she could not have children anyhow she caught for "D" happiness but not really hit was the start of the rot. "S" did not want children....anyhow they pottered along - it seems with violence (but that was kept hidden)  anyhow he "S" walked out on Christmas Eve when "D" was 9 & his sister 4. He woke "D" who thought it was Christmas morning not 3 in the morning and said "There ain't no father Christmas your Mom des it all and she's building your bike now but for you and your sister me and your Mom would be happy" Nice soul as you can see  anyhow he stopped paying the mortgage and they were evicted two days after Christmas "A" had no idea. Anyhow he carried on being nasty not paying; treating "A" like nothing etc and occasional it seems hitting her too so was hospitalized three times due to him. Well the weekend was his 50th birthday.....and "D" was asked to speak by his Dad and he did to a room full of 150 people "D" explained how his Dad had made his Mom's life a misery. His and his sisters childhoods a misery and they lived in fear. How this would be the last contact he ever made with his Dad and if he ever ever raised his hand to his Mom again he would press charges....seems at least 30 people walked out not realising what sort of Man they had as a friend. Repercussions all weekend....it seems sorry I missed it really seems "S" did not know where to go or what to say.....what goes around comes around.
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Serve him right, after the way he treated his family, he deserves all he gets....  |
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I totaly agree. He does deserve all he gets and he sounds like a complete B*****D jane |
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That's telling him!  I bet that was the last thing he expected....some 50th birthday celebration there! |
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Good! The mask ripped off and shown to all what a monster he was!!! |
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What a brave lad to standup and say what he did though congrats to him. Bullys are only that until they are exposed. Horrible man |
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Thanks for posting Kazz. That story brings hope to me in my situation; two kids scared to say what they really think for fear of his temper. Two kids that are locked in the middle of a viscious battle. Two kids that go without cos their father is an ar*ehole. I hope the son feels proud of what he has done - telling the truth after all these years, and sticking up for his mum. Good on him! |
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I think the point is Donna children can suss out who is telling them the truth, "A" never ever bad mouthed their Dad, to them to her parents his parents no one. She just took/takes it encouraging them to visit if they wanted to and making sure she always took them on time picked them up on time. Did what she promised them she would. But she said to me today actually she never expected that at all as "D" is at Uni but his sister keeps him informed and she said she was fed up with listening him praise himself up to his family and friends saying how useless their Mom was and how good he was to them when the opposite was true. Hence the worm turned. Its seems even his Dad did not know and is fuming and has not spoken to him since but has for the first times in years phoned "A" and said she should of told him he would never of let his grandchildren be treated like that nor would he of let "A" be treated like that. I think actually he would not he is a kind man. So seems things have changed and for the better. There again not sure his Dad would have believed "A" years ago but he believed his grandchildren |
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Fair play, good for him  |
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Serves him right the B@st@rd x |
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