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Cats owned: All black and white and tortie's
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: United kingdom
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13-05-2008, 12:22 PM   #1

Kay


Thanks again for all of your support on here. Kay was such a sweetie my baby girl. She would climb in my youngest daughter's toy pram and let her push her. She would bring us her toy mouse and wait for us to throw it and then bring it back. My other cats dont know what to do they are sitting around with each other. I bear no malice to the person who hit her. He wasnt going fast and stopped knocked on the door and told us and went searching for her in the garden opposite. She had come in herself and climbed up the stairs and went in the bedroom where my youngest daughter found her. She was her cat. Both my daughters are devistated and cryed themselfs to sleep last night. Its so quiet here now i miss her so much so was by little baby girl. I just wush the pain would go away i cant get her out of my head.

jane



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Cats owned: 1 Persian and one b/w moo-cat mog
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: Reading, Berkshire, UK
Posts: 12,771
13-05-2008, 02:51 PM   #2

Re: Kay


Jane - keep doing what you're doing . . . talk about her to us, to your partner, to your girls and to anyone who will listen. This is all part of the grieving process And cry lots - I've found that is a good outlet for the pain and hurt.

It was so good of the driver to stop. I'm sure he is very upset about what has happened - most people would be.

Lots of love.



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Cats owned: Leia: blue torbie
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Location: Washington, DC, USA
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13-05-2008, 04:38 PM   #3

Re: Kay


Yola's right; do keep talking about her, remembering the funny quirky things; it does help a bit. Although you never really get over the loss, but the pain does lessen...
Loads of hugs......xxxx



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Cats owned: Magnificent moggies
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Hampshire, UK
Posts: 21,718
13-05-2008, 04:52 PM   #4

Re: Kay


So very sorry Jane. Can't really find words to express how sorry I am for you and for your children. Best thing is to keep talking about Kay. One day you will find a smile at her mention, rather than tears. ***HUGS***



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Cats owned: feral moggy
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Scarisbrick, uk
Posts: 3,613
13-05-2008, 07:27 PM   #5

Re: Kay


I have to agree with Yola too that talking it through will help you all a lot. I'm sorry you feel so awful right now X big hugs to you all



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