Dreams

[Erin]

I know I have asked this before in the past but we have new members now so im going to ask again.
Are any of you any good at interpreting dreams?

I have a very strange vivid dream last night,it felt so real and its driving me insane trying to figure out what it could mean.
I have spent all day searching the net to see if I can find anything out but the things I have found arent really making any sense

[Kazz]

Who cares if we can work it out, just post the dream........

[Erin]

Originally Posted by Kazz

Who cares if we can work it out, just post the dream........

are you sure? its very very weird!

[yola]

Go for it Erin. Nothing to loose . . . maybe someone here can help?

[Erin]

OK well -

In my dream Im pregant,not very there is only a small bump.Im staying at a old friends house in Sunderland,we decide to go out clubbing,then we are stood in her office at work and she is in the middle of a meeting (we are still going out clubbing afer she has finished)when I go to the toilet. It gets really weird now
When I go to the toilet,there is a babies leg hanging out So I opent the toilet door,tell Becky that we may be late going out because the baby is coming and tell her to ring an ambulance,I shut the toilet door and next thing the rest of the baby comes out,I catch it and its all blue and not breathing,so I blow on its face and it starts crying and goes all pink.
Next thing Im back in Kidderminster in the hospitals maternity unit (it closed years ago) and asking a nurse if I could borrow a nappy becuase the baby still didnt have one on and it had wet.She gave me a nappy I went and sat on the bed and declared the baby a girl called Ellie Mae
Next thing my dad is there and I ask him to go home and get the car seat because the nurses wont let me leave untill we have it and I want to go home,but my dad replies with "no Im going on a date" I shouted at him that I needed the chair because I wasnt staying in the ******* hospital,he said no he was going on a date and left. Then a nurse came over to me and said do you want this and gave me a gift box full of clothes and nappies etc.
I then try calling my mom,tell her the baby is here and that I need her to bring the car seat to the hospital so that I could go home, she said congratulations but I cant come because Im at the pub

Then I wake up I told you it was a strange one.

The only thingI can think is that maybe the whole birth baby thing could mean new beginings which would explaine alot at the moment,but what I dont get is why my Parents would both let me down,or why the baby wasnt breathing but started when I breathed on her,what could it mean
Very starnage,my mother thought it was hillarious when I rang her this morning and told her off for letting me down and not coming to see me and her grandaughter when we needed her
Oh and Ellie May is my favourite girls name ever so that would be why the baby is called Ellie Mae.

Ok over to you guys

[Kazz]

Right just wrote a lengthy reply then the darned site shut down on me……………Aghhhh

Right the shortened version.

I think the baby is like you say new start/beginnings…(maybe to obvious but what I think too)
The blowing on the babies face tells me you need to kick start your life in effect take charge and do something rather than sit and wait for it to happen.

The fact your parents are there to support you i.e. contact you and congrats etc I think means they are in the background supporting but want you to make choices yourself stand alone almost but know you have backup without them taking over.
They have lives of their own and want you to be happy with your choices whatever they are.
I also think the nurse giving you stuff for the baby means people are helping you and willing to help either emotional/stuff/chat etc…just support. But you know what you want really i.e. car seat nappy etc etc and are willing to fight for it like you say you shouted at your Dad and then tried your Mom you know what you need/have/will do and will do it but need a push slightly to give you a confidence boost/approval almost.

But you know what you want to do i.e. and I think you know all this already but your subconscious thinks you need to think about it and gave you a dream to let you question a few things………….odd thing the mind…fascinating………..

But I also think you know this already and want to confirm it hence your mind wants you to work something out.

Also think the hospital but means that is really where you want to be in nursing….helping people and the contact with an old friend then back in Kiddy could mean you know you are in the right place I mean you did not go from Kiddy to Sunderland did you???

[Erin]

wow thanks Kazz that all makes alot of sense,I had not thought of it as my parents being in the background,I just though of it as them turning their backs for some reason.

You have done a real good job at thanks.

Thanks It was a weird one though so real,It really felt like I was holding the weight of the baby and i can still feel it now when I think about it,very vivid!!

[dandysmom]

Kazz is much better at this! I did see the baby as symbolizing a new beginning stage of life, and I thought that your parents not wanting to help meant that you really basically have to pretty much go it on your own now as an adult woman. Dreams are weird, aren't they: they seem to make such sense while we're in them, no matter how odd they really are. Do you ever have people from different stages of your life who never knew one another together in a dream? I often do .....

[Erin]

Originally Posted by dandysmom

Kazz is much better at this! I did see the baby as symbolizing a new beginning stage of life, and I thought that your parents not wanting to help meant that you really basically have to pretty much go it on your own now as an adult woman. Dreams are weird, aren't they: they seem to make such sense while we're in them, no matter how odd they really are. Do you ever have people from different stages of your life who never knew one another together in a dream? I often do .....

Yes Eileen,I used to dream quite often of my Grandad meeting Ed for the first time (my grandad died 2 years before Ed and I got together) he would shale Eds hand say hi then take me into another room and talk to me,but I could NEVER remember what it was he said to me.
I had this dream several times,never figured out what it was he was saying.
Now Im not with Ed any longer,Im thinking maybe my grandad may have been telling that he didnt think Ed was right for me,who knows

[dandysmom]

I had a recurring dream after my Dad died; the front of the house was falling off; it was quite scary. I finally figured out that it meant I needed to get out of the rental property we'd lived in for 35 years and buy my own house...and after I did, never had that dream again.....they are so odd, aren't they?