We have shut Mr Tomsk out of his room today so that he has to start joining the family. The door has been open between him and the rest of the cats for 2 weeks now, so we decided that he could become a fully fledged family member. He's not terribly keen but has found an empty chair to call bed, although he joined us on bed a couple of times last night. It has been surprisingly settled although I think he will have to be shut in his room at tea time until he is fully integrated. Still I'm really chuffed it has gone so well, we've had a couple of scraps over the last fortnight, but nothing nasty and no bites.